There are two main ways of going about a divorce: trial and settlement. Generally speaking, settling a divorce is quicker and less stress than taking a divorce to trial.
However, what if you are not getting what you want out of attempting to settle? According to Forbes Magazine, when you are deciding whether or not to take your divorce to trial, you have to consider the advantages and disadvantages of money and time versus the potential outcomes.
How does trial divorce affect time and money?
Usually, a trial divorce will take at least a year. This is in stark contrast to the majority of settlements, which typically only take a few months. Going to trial will require a major investment of your time: it is likely you will need to meet often with your attorney to prepare for court, and then you will need to appear in court itself.
Naturally, time is money. The amount of time that you sink into the trial will have its own cost. However, attorney fees, court costs and other expenses also add up very quickly if you are taking a divorce to trial.
How does trial divorce affect the outcome?
Even though trial divorces are more expensive both in terms of time and money, sometimes they are still the better choice if you are sure negotiating with your ex-spouse will get you nowhere. However, it is important to remember that a trial is not the place to air out how irritated you are with your ex-spouse.
If you want to make a case that you deserve a higher share of the assets than your spouse is willing to concede or you need more time with your kids, you will need to present this in a law-based rationale.